Past occasional thoughts and musings from Pastor Mark
at Faith Lutheran Church
in Redmond, Washington.
Faith Lutheran Church is a member of the
Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, which founded in 1988 out of the
traditions and heritage of many Lutheran churches.

Pastor Mark has been serving Faith Lutheran since June of 2007.
October 27th, 2009
It's been a while
since I've blogged with you folks for good reason. October has
been busy both in the church and in our household. The church you
know about. The household has been a different matter.
Honoring the Fourth Commandment, explained in the Catechism, is an
important part of the Christian walk:
You are to honor your father and your mother.
What is this? Answer:
We are to fear and love God, so that we neither despise nor
anger our parents and others in authority, but instead honor,
serve, obey, love, and respect them.
Kolb, R. (2000).
The Book of Concord : The confessions
of the Evangelical Lutheran Church.
Minneapolis: Fortress Press.
We started with my father in the
hospital for a week and then my mother needed help. Evie soon had kidney
issues and then, about midweek, needed a pacemaker to see if increased
bloodflow might help her kidney function. There was a
short rally, but on Sunday afternoon things turned as we came back from
the Seahawks game (we lost to the Cardinals...badly) and we had to ask for full
comfort measures that night to manage her pain. She passed away on
Monday morning. We had time to say goodbye and to hear her
words of love for us before she drifted away with the pain meds.
Evie was an immigrant from
Canada, the daughter of a Saskatchewan
farmer - grocer who came to this country to set up shop in
North Dakota. It was there that she met my father who was a young
pastor fresh out of Luther seminary serving his first parish. She was
proud of her education in nursing at Concordia College. She loved music,
crafts, sewing, cooking and family. And she survived two cancers
that were among the most deadly forms of that disease. Modern
medical science has moved forward with wonders and miracles that we take
for granted. God provides.
What we remember now is not her last year with us, which was often
full of pain, weakness and mental confusion. Death gives the
opportunity to look at the whole story, from beginning to end.
Among other things, we remember a wonderful grandmother to our two
children. A devoted wife to Bob for some 57 years. Wedding
vows are important and together they lived up to the meaning of their
promises, "in sickness and health." And we remember her witness to
faith, even in difficult times. She had the prophet's keen sense
of justice both in the church and in our society. For what she
was, we give thanks for the grace and mercy of God. We give thanks for
the strength of family, as we gathered from far away for her.
Funerals are a wonderful time to share the story, to affirm the strong
bonds of life in the time given us in our own generation, to cling to
each other in the darkness even as we look to the light. And thank
you to the Faith Lutheran family, for your wonderful support and witness
in this time. All Saints Sunday is now much more personal.